I'll try and explain the video posted above.
The sticking is RLRRLLFF where the first R is the open sliced hi-hat.
The basic rhythm he's fitting this pattern into
starts at the end of each measure, it's this:
+a| 1e + A (2) E (+) A 3 (4)+a | 1e + A (2) E (+) A 3 4|
The tricky sticking part RLRRLLFF is all played and finished within the '+a1e+'. The double hand and bass drum strokes are just on the '1e+', the RRLLFF bit. The bits in brackets are spaces. And the A E A 3 complete each pattern as rim, kick, rim, kick.
RLRRLLFF L......f.....L.f........RL...RRLLFF L......f.....L..f
+a 1..e..+ ..a (2)e(+)a 3 (4) +a | 1....e..+...a (2)e(+)a 3
The next section where he plays it three times consecutively starts on beat 1, then the '+' of 2, and then the 4. He glues them together with an extra LL between each cycle.
That ends with
Kick 1 (2) e (a) 3, Floor tom on beat 4.
Clear as mud?
On We're In This Love Together, if you mean the lick at 1:10, it sounds to me like he's playing
RLLRR..R
F..........F
but as 1/32 note triplets.