Once you throw them in (at an appropriate moment!
And there's the rub! This is the difference between drummer X and drummer Y, if one was more effective than the other. When you think about it, there really is no excuse today to not record your gigs for evaluation purposes, especially if you are experimenting or "throwing in" a newly learned idea. Recording equipment is so affordable and the quality so good...it ain't like the old days w/t Panasonic tape recorder that got muted out with the high notes.
I always remember that Weckl MD article when he was gigging with Chick...after the gig when most were going out, Dave was in hotel room evaluating his performance. I'm not saying he did this after every gig (the article made it seem that way when I read it), but nonetheless, he wanted to know what he sounded like from the seats rather than the throne.
Yet, it isn't enough to just record yourself...the ability to evaluate yourself assumes the ability to understand good phrasing, subtle dynamics, and musical composition. Maybe here we come full circle to what we listen to and why we are attracted to specific artists.
You can't impart what you don't possess?
I also dug Captain Holmes' basic groove --bd, sn, hats...mix it up, shift your paradigm, move a cymbal. For me, the pivotal shift came when I stopped doing the obvious, practice a specific idea or learn a song. I was so focused on learning songs from other artists!
Instead, I played to the click (a musical cymbal beat or cowbell) and began creating with no goal in mind...just like when your neighbor or friend comes over, sees the kit and wants to play. This took me in directions never imagined. I played things and wondered if it was "OK" because these were phrasings other drummers played, not me. I found myself attracted to playing hi hat licks that came out of nowhere. I was confused. This was good. In short, I dared to create my own voice rather than hiding behind the phrasings of my heroes which were safe and secure, respected and useful.
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