This topic is an example of what I think this board can be an excellent learning tool. If I were someone who was trying to 'make it', which I am not, then I would be posting stuff on here to the point of getting banned. I'd take this feedback to the bank, hide it under my pillow, stick it in a condom/swallow it/get it through customs.
I don't necessarily even mean by the literal feedback about notes, groove, per se-- I mean learning how to receive feedback as a whole. How to know what is legit and what is a case of someone spouting off after a bad day at work (not saying anyone is doing that, here).
I'm not old, but I started gigging when the internet was BBS. Back then, I could suck in anonymity. Nowadays, every a-hole with phone can diss me and have it live on... forever. I had a buddy who MD'd a show that brought in a sub trumpet player with literally an hour's notice-- they had to sight read the whole gig and it was an ass-kicker, but they are a great player and it was really great of them to do it on such incredibly short notice.
Guess what? Some douche with a phone (who undoubtedly is a musician with an ax to grind) ended up getting the trumpet player's name from someone at the theater, and goes and posts a freakin' Yelp review for the venue about how much the trumpet player sucked... and named him by name! He didn't even bother to dig deep enough to find out that the dude came in and subbed to save everyone's ass, while showing his own. So now when you Google this trumpet player's name, guess what happens: the Yelp review. Wonderful world!
I guess what I am getting at is that pretty much everyone, anywhere, can offer up an opinion and it is up to all of us to get some discerning, thick skin about it. Throw that tune on iTunes and every Travis Barker fan is going to rip it to shreds cause they don't get it. Throw it on here and at least something good can come out of it. Overall, I think that 95% of the feedback people give on this board is spot-on, even if the delivery isn't always tactful... but, that hits on my thick skin comment, I guess. I'll be honest-- I don't have it! Tactless comments tend to stick with me far after the one who offered them up has long forgot about my issues, but it's up to me to filter the info from the delivery.
I think this board is, in general, pretty darn good and fair, compared to the rest of the internet. I don't see people in here trolling and trying to tear people down; there may be some harsh critics that don't pull punches, but then again, the world's a mean place.
Perhaps it's not only about getting positive critique, but it is also a lesson in filtering criticism-- knowing who has a valid point and who has beef. Plus, I mean, throwing one's stuff up on a board where you have the potential to get feedback from guys like Steve, Billy Ward, Peter Erskine, Todd Sucherman, Rodge, and all of the other killer not-yet-name players... hell, even if I do get flamed, I'll take some critique from those guys if I have to take a ribbing from everyone else!
I hate critics, but I always appreciate critique.
Peace out, all-- I'm off to the Pearl forum to anonymously talk shit about jazz.
